Clients have varying success in the response rate they obtain when writing to ladies. We hope these letter writing tips will be useful to those clients who, for one reason or another don't get many replies to their letters.
It doesn't matter how good your letter is, or if you are exactly what she is looking for. If she doesn't receive your letter, your wasting your time. Unfortunately, lots of mail goes missing in the former USSR. Registered letters require a signature upon delivery, and are generally returned to the sender if they can not be delivered. It costs a little more to send letters by registered post, and takes a little longer at the post office, but it is worth it for the increased chance of delivery.
If you are fifty something, pick the cutest twenty something, and write only to her, your in for a big disappointment. The main mistake most guys make is, initially, to be too restrictive in their choice of ladies. You must remember that there are lots of other guys out there who also want to have a Russian bride. The ladies can, at times, be quite selective about who they write to, because they may have many suitors. The best approach is to select a reasonable number of ladies, about ten, and write the same INITIAL letter to each (see http://www.ukrainian-women.com/letters.shtml). See how many replies you get and take it from there. If you get no replies, read on.
As in the previous example, try to pick ladies who are about the same age as yourself, and no more than fifteen year age difference. Although it might be nice to have a wife twenty years younger than yourself, how long do you really think she will stick around? Write to a number of girls, ones you find acceptable as your wife, not just the incredibly beautiful ones. Remember that the prettiest ladies get the most letters, many of the other very nice ones actually get very few letters. You only have to look past the first few pages of the ladies photo album to see some very nice but lonely ladies.
Unless you are willing to make the journey to meet your chosen lady, there is no real point in writing to a lady, so consider this when you start writing to her. Letter writing is fine, up to a point, until you've got to know her. At some point you have to meet her and decide, or someone else will do it for you and you will have lost her. Expect to meet a few ladies before you find the right one. If you pick ladies from the same city or area, then at least this will keep down the number of plane tickets you require. Have a look at Expedia Maps a great place for finding out where somewhere is. Our tours get booked up quickly during any months, so book early.
She may be very beautiful, but if she doesn't speak your native language it will be more difficult. This is not to say only pick ladies who speak English, but just that you need to consider this when selecting who to write to. The language ability is shown as a rating from one to five, five being excellent, one being poor. Also remember the ladies can learn English very quickly, if sufficiently motivated, as English is a much easier language to learn than Russian. We can help with this through translating letters to/from English/Russian and providing a translator when you wish to meet the lady concerned. From our experience we know that lady who doesn`t speak English at all, in one month of active study becomes to be able at lest to understand you, and within period up to one year her English becomes fluent. If you write to a lady who doesn't speak English, it really does pay to translate your letters into Russian, as the lady may not understand what you have written otherwise.
Always enclose a good photo of yourself when writing to a lady. This is not one of you and your mates drinking down the pub, one of you with your arm around some girl, one with sunglasses, or one you need to squint so hard your eyes fall out to see what you look like. Include a close up shot of your upper body, one in which you can see your face clearly. Remember, this is really all the lady has to go on, so make sure you make a good impression.
We know many clients who write first letters without any information about themselves. For the ladies who receive lots of letters, you have to write a letter which stands out from the others. You need to include important pieces of information about yourself such as your age, occupation, if you already have children, if those children live with you, what you interests are etc. Also write something interesting about the lady and why you are attracted to her. If she has a dog and you're interested in animals, ask about it. If she's interested in skiing, and you share that interest, ask her about it.
We give the clients the option to allow the lady to pay to write back to the client. By default, the client pays, unless you tell us otherwise. If you use this option, please be aware that you will seriously reduce the number of replies, especially from the ladies who receive many letters. Consider that average salary in Ukraine is about $40 per month or less, so be a gentleman and don't ask her to pay to write to you.
If at first you don't succeed, evaluate your letter and expectations, and try again. We have over 600 ladies on the site, and some of these ladies have never received one letter from anyone. Don't do what everyone else does and just look at the first few album pages. Look a bit deeper, there are some really nice ladies there, and the competition is not as bad. There is a lady waiting for everyone, it's just a matter of finding her. Start by having a look at our Lonely ladies page.
If you are really interested a special lady and wish to ensure a reply, send the lady a gift, some flowers, candy or perfume. Very few clients do this, and it almost always results in a reply. It's not a cheap option, compared to writing letters, but for that special lady, it can work very well. We can deliver gifts for clients, or you can send them by normal mail. Be sure to use registered mail, as gifts can sometimes be lost or stolen in the former USSR mail system. Don't sent expensive presents or the lady may be asked to pay import duty to receive the gift. We had such experience when lady could not take her gift because import duty was more than $100.
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